Drama

I am just sick and freakin tired of all the stupid drama that's been going on.

So Friday night I was at home watching a movie when my friend Lydia, from work, was texting me.

First it was harmless.

Then she said that she needed to talk to me about something 'important'

(May I just point out if it was 'important' she should've waited to tell me in person and not through a text message)

I guess she and the new guy, Chris, were talking about me.

Before we go on I must explain something.

I make alot of inuendos.

And most of them are pretty funny.

And I do it to EVERYONE at work.
And EVERYONE at work does it too.
So I don't know what the big deal is.

Anyways.

I guess Chris was worried about me because his girlfriend was raped 3 times because she does the same thing I do.

....

Um.......I don't make inuendos to EVERYONE
And I know self defense so thats not really a problem.

But I guess he and Lydia are in agreement that I'm gonna get raped or something.

I was just like, what the hell?

And then Lydia was pretty much saying that I'm giving Andy, our friend (who's 25 and I already know he has a crush on me but its nothing and its quite funny, and Andy is one of my good friends.) mixed signals.

..........
again, I do it to EVERYONE at work.

And then she told me to stop doing it in front of Andy.
Because she doesn't want me to get raped.

hmmmm........
She and Andy use to be roomates.
And she's pretty much calling him a rapist.
And I know Andy isn't a rapist for many reasons such as:

1. If he were a rapist, and I was giving him mixed signals, I'm pretty sure he would've tried to get in my pants by now.
2. He knows everything I say is a joke, so he doesn't take what I say seriously. (I mean how could you? I purposely make it sound like a joke, just so it wouldn't be taken wrong)
3. He's never been accused of rape and if he were a rapist, he must be very good at hiding it.

So I was pretty pissed.
I was like, DUDE I'm not gonna get raped and Andy isn't gonna do anything!

And THEN (this is the icing on the cake of jealousy) she said, "Ok, you can do it in front of Andy, just stop doing it around my boyfriend (Ben, whom I call mom)"

She always tells me how she's afraid I'm going to steal him from her.

And I was like, "FOR THE LAST GODDAMN TIME I AM NOT TRYING TO STEAL BEN! He's not my type, He's 20, He loves you, and if you are really worried about him leaving you for a 17-year-old maybe you shouldn't be dating him!"

And she was all like, "Don't get offensive (even though its DEFEnsive), I'm just asking you as a friend, lay off of Ben."

I was pretty livid.

I mean seriously, I don't really talk to Ben that way anyways, and it pisses me off cuz it seems as if she doesn't trust me, and I'm like her only friend at work.
And also, she wasn't worried about me. She was worried about herself.
And the fact that she pretty much was talking behind my back to a guy who hardly even knows me pisses me off.

She made it come across as if I was a whore.

Ok lets get another thing straight.

Yes, I have a lot of guy friends, but No, I do not sleep around.

And then she said my flirting was a problem, and I was like BITCH! I'M NOT TRYING TO BE FLIRTATIOUS! I'm a bubbly person and I can easily make friends, but I'm not trying to flirt with people, thats not what I'm trying to do.

So at work, I showed Andy the text messages and he was pissed.
We were pretty much waiting the entire time for her to walk in the door so we could yell at her.

She came in at 3 with Ben because she was too lazy to walk in at 5.

So Andy went outside to confront her, and she denied everything, and he was like, "Lydia, I read the text messages, don't fucking lie to me."

And I told Ben about it, because he was gonna get pulled into it sometime, and Lydia was standing at the counter and was like, Kerina! I'm right here! And I was like, yeah, you're right here and so am I, this is how you talk to people, TO THEIR FACES!
And then she asked if she could talk to me so I went outside and we talked in my car.

First thing she said was, "I feel betrayed"
Wrong thing to say.
I said, "You feel betrayed???? Why make it about you! Thanks to you, Andy has no trust in you whatsoever, you betrayed my trust, and you're making it sound as if I'm trying to steal your boyfriend, and you're spreading rumors about Andy being a rapist."

She said, "I didn't specicify (its 'specify' dumbass) what I meant. I'm not calling Andy a rapist."

So I read the text message to her.

She was still denying it.

I told her off then and there.

I said, "Lydia, I'm not gonna get raped. I only do it to my friends, and if you want to talk to me about something, talk to ME and not some random dude at work who doesn't even know who the hell I am. And stop accusing me of trying to take your boyfriend. For the last goddamn time, you are disrespecting me and Ben by making it seem as if we can't be trusted. But it's you who can't be trusted because you have to spread these stupid rumors and shit. Get a life and stay out of mine."

And then when I got off the clock, I was talking to Ben and he told me how Lydia was talking about me all weekend (-_-) and she was saying how I flirt too much and he told me that he told her she was being hypocritical.

And then I said, "OH and for the last time IM NOT TRYING TO STEAL YOU!"
And he looked at me and said, "I know."

So Lydia texted me later that night and said, "I'm sorry....blah blah blah, please forgive me, blah blah blah, I'd feel much better if you do."

You know what I did?

I didn't respond.

I believe a true apology is face to face, just so you can see if they're sincere.

And I'm not gonna trust her for a long time.

So thats my rant for the day.

Lets just hope she can grow the hell up.

It's a Burger King, not a Drama Queen.